fat.. right or wrong??

milan and i were on this topic during lunch yesterday.. and i vaguely remember having this topic with bestest guy fren before.. the fact that they cant stand fat pple.. and they will never sympathise with fat pple.. cos they believe that these fat pple dun love themselves enuff.. are not disciplined enuff.. do not take care of themselves enuff and hence, allowed themselves to grow to the size that they are now.. and how these pple should stop eating fried food.. and stay at home and eat porridge and mushrooms.. (this is like a mixture of my conversations with them so no one knows who said wat except them)

i totally disagree.. i think its not fair to judge fat pple like that.. i believe god is fair.. in terms of body shape, body size, complexion, health, looks, brains, affluence, family background, etc.. u cant get everything at its best.. some pple are just blessed to be able to eat more and not grow fat.. some pple were brought up to learn a sport from young and hence have a high metabolic rate.. some pple are poor and hence cant afford to eat excessively..

so.. although it is a matter of discipline not to balloon to an excessive level.. i think its definitely easier for some pple compared to others.. and if these pple are happy being the way they are.. let them be lah.. no need to be so mean!!! and.. if ur wife grows fat in future years.. dun suggest liposuction to your wife.. cos as a girl, im sure i would be a happier wife if my husband can make me happy and feel good.. rather than relying on liposuction to do the job..

as an afterthought.. thats how bingeing comes along isnt it.. they cant control.. they eat and eat and eat.. and then some go to the extreme of becoming bulimic.. and with pple like milan and bestest guy fren around.. i am totally not surprised that such illnesses actually exist..