A-Z of being a good BOYfriend..

okok.. i know a lot of these probably apply to an A-Z of being a good girlfriend.. but as most guys complain.. gers have double standards.. and too bad.. its a fact.. so.. here goes.. A-Z of being a good BOYfriend.... and.. not all these things apply to what im going thru now.. so.. stop speculating..

Action speaks louder than words.. just saying or sms-ing her that u miss her and not trying to meet her in person doesnt show anything... after awhile.. she probably wun wanna meet u liaoz.. and everytime u say u miss her.. she will take it with a pinch of salt..

Be interested in your gf's frens.. cos after all.. they might just be more impt than you at the current stage of your relationship.. and dont go for stuff with ur gf just cos ur gf wants to go.. and then when u reach there.. be all disinterested.. being like a small wondering boy.. cos.. wth.. she doesnt need to be a nanny while watching a performance.. she would rather go there herself.. or with other more interested parties..

Call ur gf regularly.. dun just keep thinking that she is busy with her own stuff and hence u shouldnt call to disturb.. and definitely dont NOT call your gf for like a few days consecutively..

Dont stop her from doing the things she likes and she has been doing.. especially when u dun have time to accompany her or you are too tired to accompany her.. and dun think that just complaining and then after that when she says ok.. she wun do those stuff anymore.. and u just say "go lah.. its your life.. i wont stop you".. cos u are stopping her by complaining lor..

Expect the unexpected... cos even though u like ur life routine and planned.. it just means that the relationship will become so boring when everything is so expectable..

Fat.. this is a sensitive issue.. both for guys and gers.. but dont ever ever tell ur gf "r u getting fat deliberately? knowing tat i dun like fat?" thats absolutely ridiculous.. and.. if im getting fat so be it lor.. u are supposed to love ur gf not for her outward appearance anyway.. and if u think abt it.. and as bestest guy fren says.. who the hell will purposely become fat knowing that the other half doesnt like it?!?!?!?!

Going to the movies or for a meal is not a date.. its nothing special.. u can do it with anyone and everyone.. not that every time u meet.. something special must be done..but at least occasionally right? esp when u have told her before that life together would be interesting.. that there would be so many things to do..

Hold her hand when u are out and hug her occasionally.. i think bestest guy fren will agree with me on this.. come on lah.. thats the only thing that a couple does which normal frens dun normally do.. can try to behave more like a couple or not??

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Just cos with ur frens.. when u dun like doing something, u just wonder off and do ur own stuff.. doesnt mean that u can act the same way with ur gf.. cos.. u supposed to be taking care of ur gf lor.. even if u are bored or disinterested.. u also must try to be interested.. unless u wan her to show u a du lan face lah..

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Liposuction??? dun ever ever suggest that to your gf or wife.. unless she asks u personally for you to pay for it.. its a totally ridiculous idea.. come on lah.. fat is fat lor.. and if ur wife grew fat after giving birth to a son or daughter for u.. even more reason why u shouldnt suggest it.. yes.. she might be happy if u can pay to remove all the fats from her body... but im sure no girl will be happy with a husband suggesting the idea to her..

Movie watching.. ok.. this one i will be fair.. cos i was just being stubborn in not wanting to watch the show that u wanna watch.. but u were being stubborn too in not wanting to watch the show that i wanna watch.. so good lah.. end up not watching any show..

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Pms.. girls get it.. and admit it.. guys do too.. but guys shouldnt get it more often than gals.. girls get it once a month.. so guys shouldnt get it more than once a month right??

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Riding.. she knows u like riding and she likes being ur pillion too.. and she doesnt mind hanging out with ur biking frens with u.. and pls appreciate it.. instead of saying that you wun mind if she doesnt like cos u wun force her to like it.. a relationship is not solely a 2 person thing.. being able to go out with each other's frens is also essential..

Sms doesnt take a lot of time.. and sometimes sms can mean a lot.. well if u think calling will disturb.. im sure sms will be fine.. and dun just sms something.. get one response.. and not respond to that sms again.. cos ah.. if u do that consecutively for 2 days.. on top of the fact that u dun call.. it will piss ur gf off..

Telling your gf off for trying to give u a surprise is ridiculous.. just cos u wanna sleep and u have to work the next day.. but u are not planning to sleep within the next 15 minutes.. and ur gf is like 2 minutes away from your place.. DUN COMPLAIN THAT U R TIRED AND WHY SHE DOESNT UNDERSTAND.. cos bloody hell.. ur gf is also tired lor.. but she is at least putting in the bloody effort to go find u during her peak and in the midst of doing her closing proof which cant seem to be proved on a sunday night before clearance!!!!

U dont just wake up the next morning.. after an unresolved quarrel the night before.. and think that everything is fine just cos u can forget abt it after a night's sleep.. cos gers dun function in that way.. gers 记仇 one..

Violence doesnt bring u anywhere.. dun ever beat ur gf up (okok.. this defintely doesnt apply to my relationship cos i will never allow myself to be beaten up and still be with that b*****d).. but come on lah.. a gf is for u to teng.. why the hell u wanna beat them up for.. and for girls who are reading this.. why allow urself to continue in a relationship in which u are being beaten up?? so what if he promises never to do it again?? if it can happen once.. it will happen again.. and if he restraints himself only until the point of marriage.. u just gonna regret it for the rest of ur life.. any guy who beats a ger deserves to be caned like 100 times lor..

When she tells u she is hungry and hasnt eaten dinner.. u are supposed to tell her to go eat something or go bring her out to eat something.. instead of saying that u also haven eaten cos of that heavy lunch that u guys had.. and DO NOT ask in an amazing tone how can she still be hungry even after that amazingly big lunch that u guys had.. cos hungry means hungry lah.. u wan ur gf to starve??

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ok.. im left with 8 alphaebets.. means i completed 18.. thats more than enuff for tonight.. this is probably the toughest A-Z that i have done.. anyone got anything to contribute for the rest of the letters can go ahead.. im drained..